{"id":2756,"date":"2007-01-13T20:01:58","date_gmt":"2007-01-13T20:01:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zmetro.com\/?p=2756"},"modified":"2007-01-13T20:01:58","modified_gmt":"2007-01-13T20:01:58","slug":"the_art_of_conv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/?p=2756","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.economist.com\/images\/20061223\/PD4975842.jpg\" border=\"1\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.economist.com\/world\/displaystory.cfm?story_id=8345491\">An excellent article from the Economist<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i>The Brown and Levinson model says, roughly speaking, that Person A probably does not want to be rude to Person B, but in the way of things, life may sometimes require Person A to contradict or intrude on Person B, and when that happens, Person A has a range of &ldquo;politeness strategies&rdquo; to draw on. There are four main possibilities, given in ascending order of politeness. The first is a &ldquo;bald, on-record&rdquo; approach: &ldquo;I&#8217;m going to shut the window.&rdquo; The second is positive politeness, or a show of respect: &ldquo;I&#8217;m going to shut the window, is that OK?&rdquo; The third is negative politeness, which presumes that the request will be an intrusion or an inconvenience: &ldquo;I&#8217;m sorry to disturb you, but I want to shut the window.&rdquo; The fourth is an indirect strategy which does not insist on a course of action at all: &ldquo;Gosh, it&#8217;s cold in here.&rdquo;<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An excellent article from the Economist: The Brown and Levinson model says, roughly speaking, that Person A probably does not want to be rude to Person B, but in the way of things, life may sometimes require Person A to contradict or intrude on Person B, and when that happens, Person A has a range [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,33],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2756"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2756"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2756\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zmetro.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}